LioneSS in Sana's Eyes

Aunti Aunti this is for you it is a gift from me to you

What is this sweetie ^_^

This is you Aunti ^_^

So This is me

Isn't she cute

الشروق في الشارقة

^_^ قبل الشحادة و بنتها

I am HaPpY ...

I am very happy
Because I have conquered myself
And not the world.
I am very happy
Because I have loved the world
And not myself.





I am very happy
Because I have not surrendered
Either to the world or to myself.

By: Sri Chinmoy
From: The Divine Hero, Published by Watkins

التربية العدائية

هاد حوار صغير كان داير بين بنات كانوا عم يحكوا عن موضوع الزواج و الرجال بصورة عام

انا بعرف وحدة متزوجة كان تدرس و ترجع تشتغل بالبيت و عندها بيبي كان زوجها يرجع من الشغل ال شووووووو تعبان و بصير يطلب منها كاسة الميه انا اذا تزوجت ما احلاني و انا راده عليه يقوم يخدمه حاله نقصه ايد و الا رجل

بس انتهى الحديث الحاد جدا سالتها طيب اذا ابوكي طلب كاسة الميه بتجيبيله

كان الرد و بحد كمان اه طبعا هاد ابوي

سألته شو يعني ابوكي و اشمعنا ابوكي بيتجبيله

ردت اول شي ابوي كبير تاني شي بر الوالدين ثالث شي هاد ابوي

كان جوابي بسيط

اول شي زوجك ان شاء الله بس تتزوجي 99.9 % رح يكون اكبر منك

تاني شي زوجك الرسول الكريم حكي
( لو أمرت أحداً أن يسجد لأحد لأمرت المرأة أن تسجد لزوجها )

و ثالثا شي زي ما حكيتي هاد ابوي ليش ما تحكي هاد زوجي

زي ما بتحترمي ابوكي ليش ما تحترمي زوجك

ابوك رباكي و تعب عليك و زوجك رح يعطيكي السكينة و الراحة النفسيه

زوجك رح تعيشي معه العمر

ليش من هلأ بتفكري بالعداء و الطوش و العناد

وين الرحمة و المودة اللي ربنا امرنا فيها

كتير من الامهات للأسف بتربي بناتها على هالتربية العدائية

من ساعة ما توعي البنت و بتبلش فيها مش زوجك يصير يتأمر عليك

مش تردي عليه بكل شي خليكي قويه و مشّي اللي براسك يامّا

وهالحكي كمان بنطبق على الشباب

امه بتبلش فيه مش تحكمك مرتك مش تكون دلدول إلها

اصحك عينك تدللها خليك زلمه يامّا و قدّ حالك

ليش هالعداء في التربية

ليش ما يصير الحكي

يامّا زوجك طيعيه طاعته من رضي الله

يامّا احترمي زوجك بحترمك

و كمان للشب

يامّا الرسول امر بالرفق بالنساء حنّ على مرتك

الرسول كان يخدم اهله بيته خليه قدوة إلك

ياريت العالم توعي ان الزواج حب الزواج احترام الزواج مودة

مش حرب من ينتصر فيها و من كلمته تمشي على التاني

في قول كتير انا بحب للزواج السعيد

"كوني له أمة يكون لك عبدا"

فضفوضة

Woman's Reflection : Yasmin Mogahed

'Given my privilege as a woman, I only degrade Myself by trying to be something I'm not--and in all honesty--don' t want to be: a man. As women, we will never reach true liberation until we stop trying to mimic men, and value the beauty in our own God-given distinctiveness. '

On March 18, 2005 Amina Wadud led the first female-led Jumuah (Friday) prayer. On that day women took a huge step towards being more like men. But, did we come closer to actualizing our God given liberation? I Don't think so.

What we so often forget is that God has honored the woman by giving her value in relation to God not in relation to men. But as western feminism erases God from the scene, there are no standard left but men. As a result the western feminist is forced to find her value in relation to a man. And in so doing she has accepted a faulty assumption. She has accepted that man is the standard, and thus a woman can never be a full human being until she becomes just like a man-the standard.

When a man cut his hair short, she wanted to cut her hair short. When a man joined the army, she wanted to join the army. She wanted these things for no other reason than because the 'standard' had it. What she didn't recognize was that God dignifies both men and women in their distinctiveness—not their sameness.

For 1400 years there has been a consensus of the scholars that men are to lead prayer. As a Muslim woman, why does this matter? The one who leads prayer is not spiritually superior in any way. Something is not better just because a man does it. And leading prayer is not better, just because it's leading. Had it been the role of women or had it been more divine, why wouldn't the Prophet have asked Ayesha or Khadija, or Fatima-the greatest women of all time-to lead?
These women were promised heaven-and yet they never lead prayer.

But now for the first time in 1400 years, we look at a man leading prayer and we think, 'That's not fair.' We think so although God has given no special privilege to the one who leads. The imam is no higher in the eyes of God than the one who prays behind.

On the other hand, only a woman can be a mother. And God has given special privilege to a mother. The Prophet taught us that heaven lies at the feet of mothers. But no matter what a man does he can never be a mother. So why is that not unfair?
When asked who is most deserving of our kind treatment? The Prophet replied 'your mother' three times before saying 'your father' only once.
Isn't that sexist? No matter what a man does he will never be able to have the status of a mother.

And yet even when God honors us with something uniquely feminine, we are too busy trying to find our worth in reference to men, to value it-or even notice. We too have accepted men as the standard; so anything uniquely feminine is, by definition, inferior. Being sensitive is an insult, becoming a mother-a degradation.

In the battle between stoic rationality (considered masculine) and self-less compassion (considered feminine), rationality reigns supreme.
As soon as we accept that everything a man has and does is better, all that follows is just a knee jerk reaction: if men have it-we want it too. If men pray in the front rows, we assume this is better, so we want to pray in the front rows too. If men lead prayer, we assume the imam is closer to God, so we want to lead prayer too. Somewhere along the line we've accepted the notion that having a position of worldly leadership is some indication of one's position with God.
Muslim woman does not need to degrade herself in this way. She has God as a standard. She has God to give her value; she doesn't need a man.

In fact, in our crusade to follow men, we, as women, never even stopped to examine the possibility that what we have is better for us. In some cases we even gave up what was higher only to be like men.

If given a choice between stoic justice and compassion, I choose compassion. And if given a choice between worldly leadership and heaven at my feet - I choose Heaven.

يا عظيم للمنشد اسامة الصافي

وحدة من اروع الاناشيد اللي سمعتها

يا عظيم ... يا عظيم

يا عظيم المن يا رب السما
مدني بالعفو عمن ظلما
واجعلن مني تقيًا مؤمنا
يقتفي الهادي الحبيب الأعظما

عيش من يعفو هني طيب
قلبه من كل شر سَلِما
يا قلوبًا زينتها رحمة
ليت قلبي فيكِ بالعفو انتمى

لو درى المبحر في أحقاده
ما الذي في عفوه ما انتقما
راحة للقلب عز رفعة
ومن الأسقام للجسم حمى

إنما العفو سبيل للرضا
أي عفو جرَّ يومًا ندما
أسعَدُ الناس وأنداهم يدا
من يلاقي سوءهم مبتسما

يا الله ما احلى مقطع ياقلوبا زينتها رحمة جد شو في احلى من هيك زينه للقلب

و مقطع لو يدري المبحر في احقاده كيف اجى بعديها وصف حالة قلب الانسان العفو كلها راحة و عز

و مقطع أي عفو جر يوما ندما كيف اجي بصيغة التعجب ابدع المنشد فيه

ما بميل و انا بسمعها و كتير هالنشيد غير فيني

فعلا راحة بالبال مع العفو و الحقد ما بيجيب اللي المرض

يارب اجعل قلوبنا مليئة بالعفو و المحبة لكل الناس حتى اللي غلطوا معنا و ظلمونا

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My Desktop ^_^

My desktop far7aneh 3aleh :D

manzer el wara2a keef touches el water bejaneen
and also the stones under the water
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